使您举止得体的肢体语言

肢体语言
1. Don’t cross your arms or legs
不要交叉手臂或腿
You have probably already heard you shouldn’t cross your arms as it might make you seem defensive or guarded. This goes for your legs too. Keep your arms and legs open.
你应该听说过不要交叉手臂，这样会让你看起来存有戒心或有保留的。腿最好也不要交叉起来，让你的手臂和腿自然放松。
2.Have eye contact, but don’t stare
眼神要交流，但别盯着别人看
If there are several people you are talking to, give them all some eye contact to create a better connection and see if they are listening. Keeping too much eye-contact might creep people out. Giving no eye-contact might make you seem insecure. If you are not used to keeping eye-contact it might feel a little hard or scary in the beginning but keep working on it and you’ll get used to it.
如果你同时和好几个人说话，不时地给他们一些眼神交流有助于交流，也能知晓他们是否在倾听。然而过多的眼神交流也许会把人吓跑。完全不给眼神交流会让别人觉得你这个人有点躲闪不可信。如果一开始你不习惯眼神交流，觉得有点儿难或害怕，也要克服一下，不久你就会习惯啦。