使您举止得体的肢体语言(3)

如果你想表现对别人说的话感兴趣，就稍微向说话的那个人倾斜一点。如果你想表现的是自信，那就稍微往后仰一点。但也别太过，太靠近会让你看起来急于得到别人的认可，往后倾的太过会让你显得傲慢和疏远。
8. Smile and laugh
微笑和大笑
Lighten up, don’t take yourself too seriously. Relax a bit, smile and laugh when someone says something funny. People will be a lot more inclined to listen to you if you seem to be a positive person. But don’t be the first to laugh at your own jokes, it makes you seem nervous and needy. Smile when you are introduced to someone but don’t keep a smile plastered on your face, you’ll seem insincere.
不要太严肃，要笑起来。放松些，别人说好玩的事情的时候不妨微笑或大笑。如果你是个正能量的人，人们会更乐意与你交流。但别第一个笑你自己的笑话，这样会让你看起来又紧张又缺乏自信。当你被介绍给某人认识时，要微笑，但不要一直挂着微笑，这会看起来不真诚。
9. Don’t touch your face
别摸脸
it might make you seem nervous and can be distracting for the listeners or the people in the conversation.
这会让你看起来更紧张，还会分散交谈中听者的注意力。
10. Keep your head up
抬起你的头
Don’t keep your eyes on the ground, it might make you seem insecure and a bit lost. Keep your head up straight and your eyes towards the horizon.