使您举止得体的肢体语言(6)

16. Don’t stand too close
别站的太近
One of the things we learned from Seinfeld is that everybody gets weirded out by a close-talker. Let people have their personal space, don’t invade it.
我们从塞恩菲尔德那里学到的一件事是：谈话者之间如果靠的太近是非常尴尬的。让别人拥有自己的空间，别侵犯它。
17. Mirror
模仿
Often when you get along with a person, when the two of you get a good connection, you will start to mirror each other unconsciously. That means that you mirror the other person’s body language a bit. To make the connection better you can try a bit of proactive mirroring. If he leans forward, you might lean forward. If she holds her hands on her thighs, you might do the same. But don’t react instantly and don’t mirror every change in body language. Then weirdness will ensue.
往往你和别人开始接触，如果关系不错，你就会不自觉地开始模仿别人，这就意味着你会或多或少模仿别人的肢体语言。如果想要关系更亲密点，你可以更主动点模仿，人家向前倾，你也可以向前倾。如果她把手放在大腿上，那你也这样好了。但不要立即做出反应，也不要模仿身体语言的每一个变化。会产生尴尬。
18. Keep a good attitude
保持好的态度
Last but not least, keep a positive, open and relaxed attitude. How you feel will come through in your body language and can make a major difference.